how to pick up girls

Handshakes are very important. Usually, this is your first opportunity at "keno" (establishing physical contact.) Our hands are filled with tactile nerves. If your handshake is loose and feels clammy, you're signaling that you are anxious, and this will naturally elevate HER stress levels.

Give her hand a firm, but not bone-crushing, grasp. Pay attention to her grip also.

I've found that women who give firmer handshakes tend to be more adventurous. This must come from the fact that they're more comfortable socially, and confident in themselves.

As the conversation develops, use body contact to build the sense of connection and generate sparks. Subtly touch her knee as you tell a story. Put your hand on hers for a brief moment, as you both laugh at a joke.

(Her inner forearm is a GREAT spot to use a flirting touch, since this zone of her body is rich with nerves.) But don't look at your hand as you touch her. Just do it, as if it's a completely natural gesture.

Women are attracted to deeper-voiced men. This suggests high testosterone levels, which is a sign of strength and reproductive ability. If you don't have a naturally deep voice, lower your tone slightly when you engage her in conversation.

Speaking slower also helps when you are flirting with a girl. A deep voice, combined with eye contact, can have a hypnotic (and deeply attractive) effect.

Also, talk at the same pace she does. This enhances the sense that the two of your are connecting and bonding.

Watch an insecure guy flirt with girls, and he'll almost always speak at a faster clip than she does. (This is very true with "funny guys," who try to use constant jokes as substitute for real conversation.)

Mirror her body language. Couples who are attracted to each other tend to subconsciously "mirror" each other. By mirroring her, you are again building the sense that you are connecting on a deeper level.

DON'T fidget. This sends the message that you are nervous, and will trigger the release of stress chemicals in her brain. When you are calm and relaxed, you encourage her to go with your flow. You don't need to use a lot of flirting body language. Just be relaxed and comfortable, and smile and maintain eye contact. 

how to pick up girls

If you really learn how to talk to women and master the art of the pick up, you can talk to anyone, which will help with everyone you meet in life, including people you do business with, interviews, and and stimulating weak relationships. I can sweet talk any woman and have them like me right away. Usually everyone starts off nervous, but a lot of people secretly learn and change their ways eventually and and it seems like they were always good at it. Here's a few tips to get your started on learning how to talk to women

Tip Ones - Ask questions and nudge the conversation along but let her be the focus.Have you ever listened to other people talk for a long time? Chances are more likely than not that it gets annoying and you just want to leave. Always keep in mind that if you start talking too much. Be the leader but let her think she's in control.

Part of knowing how to talk to women is knowing things girls like and don't like.

Tip three. - Find numerous things to talk about that are interesting. You can think about thinks that are interesting beforehand and see what things she reacts to and talk about that.

This is one of the most important aspects when it comes to knowing how to talk to women. Just like all comedians do, end the conversation when it's going really well so they want more and want to speak to you again later. This is much better than trying to talk forever until both of you get bored and she leaves with that impression.

There are tons of more things you can learn if you want to know how to talk to women, such as body language, clues about if shes interested or not interested in the conversation. There many techniques that experience won't teach either, but you're lucky that others teach how to talk to women so you don't have to go through the same struggle they went through.